Welcome to The Ability Alliance, a platform dedicated to raising awareness of both visible and invisible disabilities. Our mission is to empower individuals by providing accurate information, valuable resources, and a supportive community.

A colourful digital illustration featuring diverse individuals with disabilities, including people using wheelchairs, prosthetic limbs, mobility aids, guide dogs, and other adaptive tools. The text "THE ABILITY ALLIANCE" is displayed across the centre in bold, pastel lettering on a pink banner. The background consists of alternating pastel blue and green panels, creating a vibrant and inclusive representation of disability empowerment

Introduction and Mission Statement

We believe that every person deserves to live a life without barriers, and we’re here to help make that a reality.

Why This is Important to Me

Living with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME), Endometriosis, Steatohepatitis, and De Quervain’s Syndrome, I have faced countless challenges that many people don’t see. I know first-hand how isolating and difficult life can be with an invisible disability. This journey has been my biggest fight, but it’s also been my greatest teacher. It has taught me resilience, empathy, and the importance of community. The Ability Alliance was born from my desire to make a difference, to give others the support and information I wish I had when my life changed so drastically.

What We Aim to Do

The Ability Alliance is here to:

  • Raise awareness about visible and invisible disabilities.

  • Provide information about disability legislation and rights.

  • Offer guidance on financial benefits and eligibility.

  • Highlight schemes like the Access Card and Purpl, designed to improve accessibility.

  • Share resources about services that cater to disabled people, including companies that offer home visits for those who can’t get to stores.

  • Visit places and review their accessibility.

  • Test products designed to help people with disabilities and provide honest feedback.

Legislation and Financial Support

We aim to simplify complex legislation and provide clear information on the financial benefits available to disabled individuals. This includes eligibility criteria and how to apply for support.

Accessibility Reviews and Product Testing

We will visit places to give honest opinions as disabled users, highlighting accessibility features and areas for improvement. Additionally, we will try out products designed to help people with disabilities, ensuring they do what they promise and sharing unbiased reviews.

Community and Empowerment

The Ability Alliance is more than just a resource hub—it’s a community. We want to build a space where people feel supported, understood, and empowered. We encourage everyone to share their experiences and ideas, fostering a community that advocates for change and mutual support.

Join us on this journey to break down barriers and create a more inclusive world.

My Story is not unique

Life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis is hard, before I was diagnosed with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis symptoms I worked full time as well as also being a Wife & Mother. 

My life is really tough but that is why I have to share my story with the world. Living every day with this debilitating illness makes me even more determined to raise awareness of how life-changing life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis symptoms is. People and medical professionals need to see the real side of life with a chronic illness so that we can begin to change whatever prehistoric preconceived ideas that exist in today’s society.

A digital illustration titled 'Things That Help Me Feel Better on a Bad ME Day.' It features six comforting activities represented by cute illustrations: taking a bath (a woman in a tub), wearing clean pyjamas (a person in blue PJs), warming up with cozy socks, getting lots of rest (a comfy bed), getting comfortable (pillows), and cuddling a black Labrador (Alfie). The background has soft clouds, and the design has a warm and calming aesthetic

Recent Blog posts

A Cuddly Labrador, A Sneezy Labrador and a Funny Labrador

A Cuddly Labrador, A Sneezy Labrador and a Funny Labrador it must be Vlogmas Days 14 & 15. 📆 This video was published on or around 17th December 2023 Welcome to my enchanting world, where the holiday spirit dances in each frame, somedays🎅✨

Dr Paul Hwang and ME/CFS

Vlogmas Day 8

Vlogmas Day 8 : Unboxing Pooch & Mutt Treats & Advent Calendar Time Alfie has his favourite treat box delivered The Pooch & Mutt Treat box 🐾 Watch Alfie Our Black Labrador open Day 8 of his Lilys Kitchen Advent Calendar🐾

Vlogmas Day 7 : Unboxing My Temu Haul of Disability Aids

Vlogmas Day 7 : Unboxing My Temu Haul of Disability Aids Alfie picks from his new box of Whimzees 🐾 Watch Alfie Our Black Labrador open Day 7 of his Lilys Kitchen Advent Calendar🐾

Vlogmas Day 6 : Watch my Labrador Alfie open door number 6 of his Lilys Kitchen Advent Calendar

Today for me the Myalgic Encephalomyelitis took over so today me be a very short one but for me it's one of the most special times of the day. I love being able to open his advent calendar with him it really is always a highlight of my day🐾

Life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis

Today I talk about life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis and finally reaching a diagnosis with the help of my Dr. My Dr referred me to The ME team at The Royal Liverpool Hospital 😘 Alfie picked from his box of Whimzees and is in a very impatient cheeky mood 😂

The Day my Daughter came home

Today was extremely special as it was the day my Daughter came home for the night and Alfie was so excited, she was covered in Labrador kisses 😘 Alfie had a new box of Whimzees delivered and was in a cheeky mood 😂

Vlogmas Day 3

Vlogmas Day 3 Unfortunately, today wasn’t enchanting, living with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis you have to come to terms with good, good days and bad, bad days. You also need to accept with ME as Severe as mine that the only thing you can do some days is open an advent calendar with your dog. Some days will be so bad that you can’t even do that. I love being able to open his advent calendar 🐾

Vlogmas Day 2

Vlogmas Day 2: The Blush & Gold Planner Unboxing & Alfie opens up his Lilys Kitchen Advent Calendar door number 2 🐾 Watching Alfie opening day 2 of his advent makes me so happy, he deserves the world🐾

making a difference

An illustrated poster promoting the ME Pyjama Party, featuring diverse characters in fun animal onesies and pyjamas. The text encourages people to wear PJs for ME Awareness Week and Severe ME Day, sharing photos on social media using #MEPJPARTY

The ME Pyjama Party

Get comfy for a cause! The ME Pyjama Party is a powerful yet simple way to raise awareness for Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME). During ME Awareness Week and Severe ME Day, we’re inviting you to wear your pyjamas in solidarity with those who are bed-bound due to this debilitating illness. How to Join: ✔ Take a picture in your PJs ✔ Post it on social media using #MEPJPARTY ✔ Tag friends & spread the message!

An illustrated image of a diverse group of family members and caregivers sitting together, representing the Myalgic Encephalomyelitis Carer Community. The text above them highlights the supportive network for those caring for ME sufferers.

Myalgic Encephalomyelitis Carer Community

Caring for someone with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME) can be challenging, but you are not alone. 💙 Join the ME Carer Community—a safe space for support, advice, and connection. Let's uplift one another. 🤝 #MECarers #ChronicIllnessSupport #YouAreNotAlone

A digital illustration of Alisha Whittam lying on a bed, smiling alongside her two black Labradors, Alfie and Archie. One dog is sitting happily while the other is sleeping. The image features the Alisha Whittam YouTube branding in the corner

My Youtube Channel

Welcome to my world! 💙 Join me, Alfie & Archie, as we navigate life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis, share our favourite moments, and spread positivity. Subscribe for real-life stories, disability awareness, and lots of dog love! 🐶✨ #AlishaWhittam #LifeWithME #BlackLabs

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