The Ability Alliance

Welcome to The Ability Alliance, a platform dedicated to raising awareness of both visible and invisible disabilities. Our mission is to empower individuals by providing accurate information, valuable resources, and a supportive community.

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Introduction and Mission Statement

We believe that every person deserves to live a life without barriers, and we’re here to help make that a reality.

Why This is Important to Me

Living with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME), Endometriosis, Steatohepatitis, and De Quervain’s Syndrome, I have faced countless challenges that many people don’t see. I know first-hand how isolating and difficult life can be with an invisible disability. This journey has been my biggest fight, but it’s also been my greatest teacher. It has taught me resilience, empathy, and the importance of community. The Ability Alliance was born from my desire to make a difference, to give others the support and information I wish I had when my life changed so drastically.

What We Aim to Do

The Ability Alliance is here to:

  • Raise awareness about visible and invisible disabilities.

  • Provide information about disability legislation and rights.

  • Offer guidance on financial benefits and eligibility.

  • Highlight schemes like the Access Card and Purpl, designed to improve accessibility.

  • Share resources about services that cater to disabled people, including companies that offer home visits for those who can’t get to stores.

  • Visit places and review their accessibility.

  • Test products designed to help people with disabilities and provide honest feedback.

Legislation and Financial Support

We aim to simplify complex legislation and provide clear information on the financial benefits available to disabled individuals. This includes eligibility criteria and how to apply for support.

Accessibility Reviews and Product Testing

We will visit places to give honest opinions as disabled users, highlighting accessibility features and areas for improvement. Additionally, we will try out products designed to help people with disabilities, ensuring they do what they promise and sharing unbiased reviews.

Community and Empowerment

The Ability Alliance is more than just a resource hub—it’s a community. We want to build a space where people feel supported, understood, and empowered. We encourage everyone to share their experiences and ideas, fostering a community that advocates for change and mutual support.

Join us on this journey to break down barriers and create a more inclusive world.

My Story is not unique

Life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis is hard, before I was diagnosed with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis symptoms I worked full time as well as also being a Wife & Mother. 

My life is really tough but that is why I have to share my story with the world. Living every day with this debilitating illness makes me even more determined to raise awareness of how life-changing life with Myalgic Encephalomyelitis symptoms is. People and medical professionals need to see the real side of life with a chronic illness so that we can begin to change whatever prehistoric preconceived ideas that exist in today’s society.

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The ME Pyjama Party

Get comfy for a cause! The ME Pyjama Party is a powerful yet simple way to raise awareness for Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME). During ME Awareness Week and Severe ME Day, we’re inviting you to wear your pyjamas in solidarity with those who are bed-bound due to this debilitating illness. How to Join: ✔ Take a picture in your PJs ✔ Post it on social media using #MEPJPARTY ✔ Tag friends & spread the message!

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What is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis

According to the NHS Website, Chronic fatigue syndrome (CFS) is a long-term illness with a wide range of symptoms. The most common symptom is extreme tiredness

For more information please visit https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/chronic-fatigue-syndrome-cfs/

People with ME/CFS have fatigue that is very different from just being tired. The fatigue of ME/CFS:

  • Can be severe.
  • Is not a result of unusually difficult activity.
  • Is not relieved by sleep or rest.
  • Was not a problem before becoming ill (not life-long)

Worsening of ME/CFS symptoms after physical or mental activity that would not have caused a problem before illness. This is known as post-exertional malaise (PEM).

Sleep problems.

Many but not all people with ME/CFS have other symptoms.

Pain is very common in people with ME/CFS. The type of pain, where it occurs, and how bad it is varies a lot. The pain people with ME/CFS feel is not caused by an injury. The most common types of pain in ME/CFS are:

  • Muscle pain and aches
  • Joint pain without swelling or redness
  • Headaches, either new or worsening

Some people with ME/CFS may also have:

  • Tender lymph nodes in the neck or armpits
  • A sore throat that happens often
  • Digestive issues, like irritable bowel syndrome
  • Chills and night sweats
  • Allergies and sensitivities to foods, odors, chemicals, light, or noise
  • Muscle weakness
  • Shortness of breath
  • Irregular heartbeat
Information is taken from The CDC Website https://www.cdc.gov/me-cfs/symptoms-diagnosis/symptoms

Myalgic Encephalomyelitis does not have a cure.

Find a Dr or Consultant who listens to you is the first step

It is a manageable condition and depending on the severity of your symptoms the more difficult this can become.

I advise learning to listen to your body and what it is telling you. If you feel tired rest and if you feel pain find a solution to reduce that pain, this could be through pain medication prescribed by your Dr.

I am not saying that finding a Dr who listens or listening to your body is going to be easy as this illness is incredibly complex for some and manageable for others.

Having a Dr who listens to you or reads about the latest drug that sufferers are recommending can take a lot of unnecessary stress and anxiety from the sufferer.

It would be best for me to point you to the above question What is Myalgic Encephalomyelitis? 

Most pages list the illness as ME/CFS or Myalgic Encephalomyelitis/Chronic Fatigue Syndrome or sometimes even Systemic exertion intolerance disease (SEID).

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